One LESS Waffer Thin Mint

You know the Monty Python skit where the very large man is eating buckets and buckets of food at the restaurant and, after all the gluttony, the waiter encourages him to have a mint?  The man doesn’t want to, because he’s full. But the waiter keeps encouraging him because, after all, it is wafer thin (pronounced “waffer thin” in the skit).  What harm could it do?

Well, the guy eats it and then … EXPLODES!  It’s absolutely disgusting … and hilarious in a strange kind of way.

I feel like that guy at the restaurant sometimes … and I’m not talking about my gluttonous consumption of Halloween candy this week.  I’m talking about a seemingly unstoppable urge to add to my to-do list what I convince myself is simply ”one more waffer thin mint.”

Well what if, instead of adding one MORE to my plate, I decided to have one LESS?

Seth Godin spoke about this in one of his recent blog posts.  He called it N-1.  He asks us whether doing one less thing would allow us to do an even better job on all of the other things on our to-do list.

It’s a good question. Maybe having one LESS would allow us to enjoy and relish all of the other things on our plate so much more.

I know some things that appear to be “waffer thin” end up causing a great big mess.

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Did you know? I stage all my listings…at no extra charge. It’s part of my service package as a Montreal West Island real estate agent/broker.  I also hire a professional photographer to take photos of your home for the MLS.

Professional home staging and professional photography: two critical factors to making sure your home looks its best, both in person and on the Internet, and neither of them cost you extra when you list your home with me.

Thankful Thursday – October 28, 2010

She remembers the name of my first boyfriend…and the fact that she kissed him first.

She remembers all of my misdeeds…with what appears to be a photographic memory.

She hears past ”I’m fine”…and waits for me to spill the beans.

She makes fun of me…and helps me make fun of me too.

She pulls me back to reality and grounds me…lest I stay in the clouds for too long.

She will answer any question I ask…and asks me the questions I need to ask myself.

She makes me laugh…’til I cry or pee my pants.

She tells me if I’m being an idiot…but with love and understanding.

And she wants nothing more, than for me to be who I am.

Doing what we do best together.

She’s my little sister, Audrey, and she’s sunshine in my life.

Some of us are lucky enough to have people in our lives (siblings, friends, other relatives) who don’t judge us, who have known us since the days when we thought Scott Baio was the cat’s meow, who critique our dancing with the very best of intentions, and who stand up for us when we can’t see clearly enough to do it ourselves. 

We need to cherish those people.  They are our life lines to our past…and to our future.  Thanks, Audrey, for being who you are…tattletale and all. :)

Pssst: Want to hear a secret to save time on social media?

Want to learn a quick trick to save time on social media? 

Two sumo wrestlers

Me wrestling with social media: I'm the cuter one.

Anyone who has been following me for a while knows that I have a love/hate relationship with social media.  I love the opportunity social media provides to stay in touch with friends, family and contacts and to get my work out there to home buyers and sellers in Montreal West Island.  But I hate how social media sucks my time away without my even realizing it. I wrestle with this daily.

Well, 10 days ago, at a seminar on developing a social media strategy that was organized by MiB Networking Group and delivered by Nancy Overbury, I learned of a beautiful secret.  OK, I suppose it’s not so much of a secret as a treasure, really. 

Have you heard of Hootsuite?  It’s a site where you can update your status and post it to as many social networks as you want.  And each time you do it, you get to choose which sites you want your update to go to.  You first have to set up an account at Hootsuite (I have the basic/free setup) and then you add the social networks that you want to be part of your account.  My Hootsuite account links to my Facebook profile, Facebook fan pageTwitter account, and LinkedIn profile.

As an example, if I feel like sharing something that is more personal and less business-related, I may not want my status update to go to my LinkedIn profile nor my Facebook fan page, but I do want to it go to my Twitter and Facebook profile.  After I type in my status update at Hootsuite, I just click on the profiles/sites I DO want it to go to. 

If I write a blog post, I likely want it to go everywhere, so I pen my status update at Hootsuite and provide the link to my blog, and then click on all four social networking sites.  And voila!  An update goes to all four social networking sites announcing a new blog post.

Hootsuite also counts the number of characters you are using and lets you know if you’ve gone beyond the Twitter limit of 140 characters.

It’s so simple, and a real time-saver.  And it’s easy to set up.  I mean, if I can do it…. :)

 

 

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Did you know?  I stage all my listings…at no extra charge.  It’s part of my service package as a Montreal West Island real estate agent/broker.  I also hire a professional photographer to take photos of your home for the MLS.  

Professional home staging and professional photography: two critical factors to making sure your home looks its best, both in person and on the Internet, and neither of them cost you more when you list with me.

Benefit at Bourbon Street for West Island Palliative Care Centre – Saturday October 23, 2010

Have you ever had reason to be at the West Island Palliative Care Centre?  If not, consider yourself lucky.  So many have, and yet what I hear from anyone who has lost a loved one who got to spend there final days there is, “That place, and the people who work there, are amazing.”

This Saturday, October 23, there will be a party at Bourbon Street West with all proceeds benefitting the West Island Palliative Care Centre.  

The party is in honor of Michael Charles (my friend Tanya’s brother) and all others who fought hard and lost their battle to cancer.  In the words of Tanya Charles:

I will be there to honor Michael, Claudine’s Dad, Delphine’s mom, Lori’s mom, Tanya’s (that’d be me) mother-in-law and everyone else who lost life.

The band Crave will be playing, as well as a great DJ and a jam set with appearances from Jeff Smallwood and other musicians. Feeling lucky?  Raffles and door prizes to be won as well.

Tickets are $15, which includes one free drink and one raffle ticket.  Did I mention that all proceeds will benefit the West Island Palliative Care?

Tickets are available at the door and at the following businesses:

Musicircle 4822 boul St Jean; Aux Jeux 3683 boul St Jean; and XS Tattoo & Piercing 999 boul St Jean.

Tickets also available by contacting Cookie (Corina Charles) at 514-999-6824. 

Feel free to spread the word about this great cause, my friends.

Amused to Death?

I’m feeling philosophical this Monday morning.  Roger Waters is coming to play the entire album The Wall here in Montreal at the Bell Centre.  Hubby is going, but I’m not.  Though I’m a huge Roger Waters fan, it’s his solo stuff I prefer and so I just couldn’t justify the price tag: a cool $250.  The Wall is Ritch’s favourite album, so he must go.

I’m feeling philosophical because I’ve had to ask myself some tough questions about how I’ve been spending my time lately.  I’ve spent the better part of a year investigating and experimenting in social media, including blogging.  It’s been a huge learning curve for me, and though I’m not done learning yet, I know I need to be more focused in how I spend my time. 

It’s just so easy to convince myself that what I’m doing is “work.”  And most of the time it is; at other times, it’s purely social — and I need to be honest about that and figure out whether I can afford that time to be social or whether I should be working on other things.  Or here’s a thought: how about being social with the real live friends and family who are already in my life?

I was on Facebook a while back when Jared James asked the question:

“Is what you’re doing right now productive?”

The quote in today’s Montreal Gazette was from Dante:

“Heaven wheels above you, displaying her eternal glories, and still your eyes are on the ground.”

And from Roger Waters’ Amused to Death, a beautiful, mystical, passionate and prophetic song (subscribers: the link to the song will come up if you open up my blog instead of reading from the e-mail):

“No tears to cry. No feelings left.  The species has amused itself to death.”

So here’s to having our feet planted firmly on the ground, to looking for – and seeing – the beauty that surrounds us, to spending less time plugged in and more time just being…and to being honest about why we do what we do.  

Have a great week, my friends.

Open House this Sunday October 17 for Beaconsfield Qc Home for Sale

Open house this Sunday October 17 from 2-4 pm for a Beaconsfield, Quebec, home for sale.

This home’s a stunner.  Fieldstone exterior and fireplace. Grand staircase. Huge lot in park-like setting. Three-car garage with carport. Four bedrooms, 2+2 baths, and huge finished basement.  $995,000.

Prime location near parks, schools, Beaurepaire village, soccer fields, recreation centre, library, Lakeshore.

Address: 92 Celtic, Beaconsfield, Quebec H9W 6A9.  Celtic is located between (and parallel to) St. Charles and Woodland.  From Beaconsfield Blvd/Lakeshore, turn onto Brookside, then left onto Celtic.  From Beaurepaire, turn directly onto Celtic. 

MLS 8393118

See you tomorrow?  Hope so.

 

 

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Did you know?  I stage all my listings…at no extra charge.  It’s part of my service package as a Montreal West Island real estate agent/broker.  I also hire a professional photographer to take photos of your home for the MLS.  

Professional home staging and professional photography: two critical factors to making sure your home looks its best, both in person and on the Internet, and neither of them cost you a thing when you list with me.

High Retention Rate for Quebec Real Estate Agents

Here in Quebec, Canada, we’ve apparently just experienced the highest retention rate of real estate brokers/agents since 1994, the year when the provincial association* for real estate professionals was created. 

The cut-off date for renewal of our licenses was September 15, 2010.  Notices were sent out to almost 20,000 real estate brokers** in the province of Quebec, advising us (and then reminding and reminding us) that the deadline was coming. 

According to the October 6, 2010, edition of Proactive: The Newsletter for Quebec Real Estate Professionals, about 87.5% – or 17,448 – of us renewed our licenses.  That’s pretty high, no? 

Quebec experienced a relatively stable real estate market (emphasis on the word “relatively”) despite the global economic situation which had a more profound impact in other major Canadian cities like Vancouver, Calgary and Toronto, and in so many areas of the U.S.  We did feel some pain here in Quebec, particularly in the higher-end market, but nothing like what was, and still is being experienced in so much of the U.S. 

My guess, then, is that the retention rate for real estate professionals here in Quebec is likely much higher than that experienced elsewhere.  What do you think? 

* This association is now known as the OACIQ: the Organisme d’autoréglementation du courtage immobilier du Québec.

** We brokers were formerly called agents.

Three Common Home Staging Myths

These 3 common home staging myths are based on my experience staging and selling Montreal West Island homes.  Please note that I am NOT an international expert on home staging and real estate, nor do I play one on TV…at least not yet LOL.  

That being said, in the years that I have been staging and selling Montreal West Island homes, I have come across many homeowners who believed they knew how to stage their home.  Many did have a good handle on how to prepare their home for sale.  

Others…well, not so much.  Some had spent considerable time and energy falling victim to 3 common home staging myths:  

Myth #1: When in doubt, paint the walls white.  

 While this may sound like a good idea, in reality, there are hundreds of different whites to choose from.  Pick the wrong one, and your home ends up looking antiseptic.  Yes, I know, a clean home is good.  But an antiseptic one turns people off.  

Unless you have loads of big, beautiful works of art for a gallery-type feel, or someone who can choose a white just for your space, it’s safer to go with a light beige.  I know – light beige, how boring.  But it is warm and neutral and rarely elicits a negative response.  

And by the way, a gallon of light beige paint costs exactly the same as a gallon of white paint, so no excuses! 

The blue is too strong...

Not white, but soothing grey.

Myth #2:  Go crazy with the decluttering.

OK this one is tricky.  I’ve been called in many times after homeowners had spent hours and hours decluttering their home because that’s what they had learned during their HGTV marathon.  In many cases, this is great.  In other cases, not so much.  

 The thing is, you CAN go too far with decluttering, leaving your home devoid of any personality, charm or character whatsoever.  Buyers are looking for homes that feel warm and welcoming.  They are turned off by homes that look “cold.” 

Before-Cluttered

Some clutter...

Decluttered, but still some personality and life.
 
 
Myth 3: Banish all family photos.  

Nope, I disagree. Surprised?   

Family photos add a piece of you.  They add life, character and warmth.  They show that a real family, real people, lived here…happily.  They show a lifestyle, and buyers are drawn to things that evoke a lifestyle that looks happy and content.  

Buyers are also naturally curious — they like to get a feel for the persons living there.  Leave them a few cues and they’re happy.  

But not ALL family photos need to be displayed, and they shouldn’t be all over the place.  I tend to cluster family photos, for example on a wall, a dresser, a console table or an end table.  Clustering makes an impact, but only for a moment, so that buyers are not continually distracted by you and your family every step of the way as they visit your home.  

Family photos scattered about...

No more dots of family photos, but still some around.

Common to all 3 of these myths is the premise that a home for sale should be devoid of the family that made that house their home.  I disagree wholeheartedly.  You and your family SHOULD be there, symbolically, but in tasteful measures.   

It’s like adding seasonings to your food: add none and the food is bland, too much spoils the dish, but a little goes a long way.  

With home staging, we like to leave just enough spice in a home to give it flavour, without overwhelming a buyer’s tastebuds.  

By the way, I stage all my listings…at no extra charge.  It’s part of my service package as a Montreal real estate agent/broker.  I also hire a professional photographer to take photos of your home for the MLS.  

Professional home staging and professional photography: two critical factors to making sure your home looks its best, both in person and on the Internet, and neither of them cost you a thing when you list with me.

 

Thankful Thursdays – September 30, 2010

Have you ever read one of Susan Mangigian’s Thankful Thursday posts?  They’re so heartfelt and genuine, they’re inspiring.  So here I am, doing my first one.  I’m afraid it’s going to sound cheesy, but here goes anyway.

I’ve always been a bit of a perfectionist.  (“…a bit of…?”  My sister is laughing her head off right now.)  While I have high expectations of others, they’re not nearly as high as the expectations I have of myself. 

And when I make a mistake, I get really upset.  Really, really upset.  Oh you may not see it on my face…or do you?  But if you could see inside of me, you’d see what looks like a witch’s cauldron — a swirling, boiling, steaming mess of regret and disappointment and self-criticism, with maybe an eyeball thrown in for good measure.  (Hmmm, does that make me a witch, I wonder?)

And so I adore people who do not take themselves too seriously.  People who are successful in life (whether personally, professionally or both) AND have the courage to admit, and share, and laugh about the fact that they have made many mistakes in life – and no doubt learned from them.  At the very least, they survived them.  And learned to laugh about them.  And then had the courage and generousity of spirit to share their stories with others, like me, so that we can take their experience and their laughter and rub it on our wounds like a soothing salve.  Or maybe like a sunscreen, to protect us a wee bit from the self-scorching that will come the next time we make a mistake.

Today, and everyday, I am thankful to those of you who freely offer up your salve.  You make me feel better…and you make me strive to be better, so that I too can offer up my salve to those around me.

For You: Music to Inspire

We all need a little inspiration sometimes.  Sometimes we spend too much time operating at a superficial level, just sort of skating across the surface, not having the time or inclination or courage to go deeper.

We need to go deeper sometimes.  To get down and dirty and emerge bigger and better for it…warts and scars and scrapes and burns and all.

Music helps me get there.  I am so thankful that there are people on this planet who have the courage to go deep, the courage to create from that place, and the courage to put it out there for all of us to see and enjoy…and even criticize.

These are a few of my favourites, all live performances – I much prefer the perfect imperfection and intensity of live performances.

These songs inspire me.  They push me to push myself, personally and professionally.  To take risks.  To put myself out there.  And to forgive myself for being only human.

The first one is K.D. Lang singing “Hallelujah at the Juno Awards (Canada’s music awards) in Winnipeg, Manitoba, in 2005.  Hallelujah was written by Leonard Cohen, a Montrealer.  It’s been performed by many artists, but this is one of my favourite renditions.

The second is The Tragically Hip, a band from Kingston, Ontario, singing “Nautical Disaster on SNL in 1995.  As a former Maritimer, this one touches me.

And the last one is the Black Crowes, live in Atlanta, Georgia, singing “She Talks to Angels.”

I hope they inspire you to go where you need to go, like they do me.  Let me know, OK?



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